SELECTIVE · PRIVATE · HIGH-TOUCH
Seven-Day Total Immersion
A deeply tailored engagement for couples at a consequential inflection point—when protected time, exceptional privacy, and sustained attention matter.
Not a packaged retreat. A carefully held engagement.
Total Immersion is shaped around the couple’s history, present pressures, desired outcomes, and capacity for honest work. The pace is deliberate, the setting is private, and the engagement is intentionally limited.
THE METHOD BENEATH THE IMMERSION
Seven days guided by four directions
- North · Clarity: name what is true.
- East · Alignment: hear accurately and align shared direction.
- South · Connection: rebuild intentional closeness.
- West · Structure: establish rhythms and boundaries that protect progress.
How the engagement unfolds
01 · Private inquiry
One spouse may begin the inquiry, but both spouses must be aware of and willing to participate before an engagement is accepted.
02 · Fit conversation
True North reviews readiness, goals, safety, appropriateness, scope, and whether coaching is the right form of support.
03 · Separate assessments
The husband completes Partner A and the wife completes Partner B independently. Individual answers are not used to assign blame or establish legal or clinical conclusions.
04 · Tailored proposal
If accepted, the couple receives a written scope describing preparation, setting, inclusions, exclusions, investment, scheduling, and participation expectations before payment.
05 · Seven protected days
Guided work is balanced with private reflection, couple practice, rest, and deliberate integration. The cadence is shaped around the couple rather than a public program schedule.
06 · Reentry and continuity
A tailored reentry plan, follow-through conversations, and appropriate 30-, 60-, and 90-day practices help protect what was established.
What is confirmed before payment
Because each immersion is tailored, no applicant is asked to pay before receiving the written engagement scope. The proposal identifies the location and private setting, lodging and meal arrangements, guided-session structure, materials, follow-through, transportation responsibilities, personal expenses, and every material inclusion or exclusion.
A request, assessment, or consultation does not guarantee acceptance or reserve dates. Placement is secured only through the written acceptance and payment process described in the proposal.
A considered fit
Total Immersion is designed for legally married couples who value discretion, can participate voluntarily, and are ready for structured, honest work without public exposure.
When another form of support should come first
Coaching may be declined or paused when immediate danger, coercion, active violence, acute mental-health or substance-use crisis, emergency needs, or a need for licensed clinical, medical, or legal care makes this format inappropriate. True North may recommend qualified outside support.
Selective by design
Acceptance depends on readiness, fit, availability, safety, and whether coaching is appropriate. Seven-day engagements are expected to fall within the $25,000–$35,000 range, depending on scope, setting, and customization.
Planned far in advance. Booked closer to the experience.
Every Seven-Day Total Immersion is designed specifically for the accepted couple. Dates, setting, accommodations, meals, investment, inclusions, exclusions, and service-specific terms are confirmed in writing closer to the actual experience and before payment is requested. Planning does not constitute a booking or guarantee availability.
After application review, each spouse receives a private, separately assigned assessment link. Assessments are not available automatically after a general inquiry.
THE TRUE NORTH FRAMEWORK
Four directions for sustained change
The immersion process uses four complementary directions: Clarity reveals what is true. Understanding helps each spouse recognize what it means. Alignment determines how the couple moves forward. Connection creates closeness, and Structure protects progress.
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